Rating: 5 stars
This book made me realize that I must rethink my methods of discipline. Lorelei and Ben are very good kids who sometimes need to take a few minutes or take a few deep breaths before returning to the fun. But the only thing I really take away from them if they are naughty is one of their two bedtime books.
"One more time and you lose a book!" I'll say. It seems pretty ludicrous even to type it, but it almost always works. They really love bedtime books, and I love to end the day this way. I'm lucky that bedtime is a really nice time of day for us, full of giggles and stories and wrestling-into-pajamas and cozying up to read a book or two or three.
With Ben especially I love this time--he's a cute kid, but when his dragon bath towel is pulled over his head, clean for the first time since waking up... He's SUPER cute. And he makes my heart melt.
The other night he chose this book, and as he sat in my lap, wanting one arm around him while the other turned the pages, I realized I can't take this part of the day away. It'll be gone way too soon.
And this book is a really, really great one, especially for boys whose special talents do not include quieting their body when their body needs to be quieted. Know any lad like this? This book is about construction vehicles (you knew that already) who are tough and hard-working by day. But, when the sun starts to go down, they know it's time to wash up and tuck in. Take Crane Truck:
Reaching, stretching, lifting high,The words in this book are really, really wonderful--sweet and calming.
He swings the beam into the sky.
He'll set it down right on its mark,
Then off to bed; it's almost dark.
But the pictures! Lichtenheld's talent shines. He somehow manages to make these tough vehicles muscley and brawny by day and then...adorable by night. Crane Truck holds a little teddy bear in his arms of steel. Cement Mixer throws a tiny blankie over his big body. Bulldozer keeps his neighbors awake with his snores. I love this message to boys: You can be tough, and tender, too.
I bought this book for Ben after we checked it out from the library. It's a book I want on his shelf for as long as possible, so at the end of each and every day we can focus on only the sweet parts of him, of us, of our day.